Our Family Law Attorneys in the South Bay Can Help Clients Navigate and Resolve the Issues that Arise in a Dissolution of Marriage, Divorce, and Legal Separation, Including Child Custody, Child Visitation, Spousal Support, Child Support, Division of Community, and Separate Property.
Our partners, Christina M. Wickers Herman and Alexandra L. Admans, practice areas include all types of family law and divorce matters. Some of which include marital separation, marital dissolution, and marital settlement agreements. Whenever possible, we seek to resolve the matters by agreement of the parties.
The attorneys at this firm assist clients in contentious divorce issues that include dividing marital property, obtaining orders related to child legal and physical custody, visitation schedules, and spousal and child support. These types of issues may need to be litigated to reach closure and resolution.
Wickers, Wickers & Admans LLP
The attorneys at this firm have areas of practice that include all types of family law matters, including divorce, child custody, parentage, child support, spousal support, marital separation, marital dissolution, and marital settlement agreements. Whenever possible, we seek to resolve the matters by agreement of the parties, but we are always our clients’ advocates.
The attorneys at this firm assist clients in contentious divorce issues that include dividing marital property, obtaining orders related to child legal and physical custody, visitation schedules, and spousal and child support. Our attorneys litigate with opposing parties and going to trial to reach closure and resolution for our clients. We are a no-nonsense team advises our clients of the foreseeable risks and benefits so that they can anticipate, where possible, the next steps. Our family law section in Torrance handles an array of issues including separation, child custody, visitation, alimony, spousal support, division of community and personal property, as well as guardianships.
Our former law practice also included business law, which assists our family law clients in making decisions about dividing community businesses and advising clients on whether the Court would likely conclude that the business was community or separate property.
The attorneys at this firm guide their clients in situations that arise when a marital relationship becomes impossible to recover or repair. California law gives individuals the right to obtain a dissolution or obtain a separation from that relationship.
The dissolution proceedings can be extremely complex, involving not only the financial aspects but also relationships between the couple. Divorce proceedings are also difficult for the children. They can be further complicated by extraordinarily long-term issues related to retirement and pension accounts, as well as potential probate or inheritance issues. The attorneys at this firm help their clients navigate the issues that arise in legal separation and divorce.
The dissolution process can be handled in the context of a mediation and resolved efficiently and by agreement of the parties. However, it is almost always advisable to obtain the advice of a lawyer in a Dissolution proceeding.
The Court has authority to award child support to either spouse, depending on the circumstances. Two of the factors the courts take into consideration when deciding a child support amount are the approximate percentage of time the parents have with the minor(s) and which parent has the higher level of income. The court uses a DissoMaster to calculate the amount of support, and an Income and Expense Declaration is filed in order to assist the Court in creating those calculations correctly.
At our office, we are able to calculate those numbers on the DissoMaster and file them in anticipation of a hearing for the Court to review before the hearing to assist the Court with the child support award calculation. To get a quick idea of your potential child support, you can go to https://childsupport.ca.gov/guideline-calculator/. Please note that until you have the entire picture of the other party’s financial circumstances, you will not be able to get a good estimate.
Many times, the parents of minor children can reach an agreement about when each parent has time with the minor(s) and which parent is responsible for transportation for the minor. When issues arise, sometimes it is necessary to file for an emergency order related to child custody and visitation. Other times, a Request for Order can be filed before a final Judgment is entered to obtain pendente lite orders pending trial. Post-judgment, a Request for Order is also the filing necessary to get the parents’ custody concerns before the Court and obtain orders after an evidentiary hearing.
The attorneys handle spousal support matters in divorce as part of the family law case. In Court, the attorneys provide the Judge with filings and oral argument, discussing some of the same factors that apply to spousal support as do the child support discussed above. The spousal support request for order must be filed with an Income and Expense Declaration. The attorneys will let their clients know what information is necessary and helpful for an optimal outcome in the client’s case. With respect to spousal support, the Judge will take into account many factors, including the parties’ established standard of living during the marriage.
Initial Support Orders can be made in dissolution of marriage, legal separation, divorce, or child custody cases. These support order requests in the family law courts should be made as early as possible and can sometimes be obtained on an emergency basis, with shortened notice in certain circumstances, or by request for order. The Court rarely issues ex parte orders for child support, so an expedited support application can alternatively be sought (Family Code 3623 and 3620–3634).
In marital disputes, there are times when it is appropriate to obtain restraining orders to protect people and animals from abusive behavior, whether it is a divorce proceeding or a civil matter. The attorneys in this office can obtain orders from the Court to restrain a person from conduct, stay away from a workplace/residence, protect a pet, exclude a person from the residence, obtain control of property, and restrain behavior. Usually, these orders require all guns to be turned over to the local Police Department as well.

A recognized, legal relationship between a parent and a child automatically gives the parent the right to have care, custody, and control of their child, absent any circumstances that do not serve the child’s best interests (California Family Code §§ 3010–3011). This right, although subject to the Court’s own right to intervene, is fundamental and exists from the time that a parent becomes legally responsible for the child up until a terminating event (Family Code § 3022).
Terminating events include, but are not limited to, a Court-ordered termination or Court appointment of a guardian, successful emancipation, if the child reaches the age of majority, if they enter a valid marriage, or if they enter military service (Family Code §§ 7002, 7505).
California Family Law presumes a parent-child relationship in most instances, and where a relationship is not presumed, the Courts provide an avenue to establish a parent-child relationship. If you are seeking custody of your child but were never married to the mother of the child, you may be required to petition the Court to establish a parent-child relationship to gain custody.
The California Family Code is old-fashioned in that it presumes a parent-child relationship in any situation where a child is born to a couple who are about to marry, have married, or have divorced within the past three hundred (300) days (Family Code § 7540). This presumption extends itself to situations where the presumed father consents to being named on the child’s birth certificate, where there is a voluntary written promise or Court Order specifying that the presumed father pays support for the child, or where the presumed father receives the child into his home and holds himself out as the child’s parent (Family Code § 7611(a)–(d)).
A same-sex partner of a birth mother may establish parentage as a presumed parent under Family Code § 7611(d) if there is a sufficient showing that the partner received the child into her home and openly held out the child as her natural child. The same-sex partner’s obligation to support the child is required just as it would be required of any other presumed parent.
However, when parents are unmarried, it can be slightly more difficult for a father to establish a legally recognized relationship with his child because there is no presumption of paternity outside a marital relationship. Proof that an unmarried mother gave birth to the child is enough to establish a parental relationship, but an unmarried father must establish paternity to gain custody of the child through the Courts (Family Code § 7611(a)).
One way an unmarried parent of a child can legally establish parentage of a child is through a Voluntary Declaration of Paternity. A Voluntary Declaration of Paternity is a form through which both parents confirm the identity of the child’s biological father. When the parents sign this form, they are consenting to a parent-child relationship between the father and the child (Family Code § 7570). The form is not effective unless both parents sign it (Family Code § 7570). Voluntary Declarations of Paternity signed and executed in another state are recognized under California law (Family Code § 7573).
Since January 1, 1995, California law requires hospital staff to present a Voluntary Declaration of Paternity to an unmarried couple upon the birth of their child (Family Code § 7572). If the form is not signed at the hospital, it is made available at prenatal care clinics, county registrar or welfare offices, childcare facilities, the Department of Child Support Services, and other governmental health agencies (Family Code § 7571).
A Voluntary Declaration of Parentage may be rescinded by either parent within sixty (60) days of its execution, unless there is a Court Order regarding visitation or custody in place (Family Code § 7575(a)). In order to rescind the form, a rescission form must be filed with the Department of Child Support Services.
Additionally, the father who signed the form has two (2) years from the date of the child’s birth to request Court-ordered genetic testing to determine biological paternity (Family Code § 7541).
The Voluntary Declaration of Parentage may be set aside if the father proves he is not the child’s biological father (Family Code § 7575(B)(3)(a)). Alternatively, a mother may request genetic testing of the father and set aside the Voluntary Declaration if the testing proves a man is not the child’s biological father (Family Code § 7575(B)(3)(a)). The Court may refuse to set aside the Voluntary Declaration if it is not within the best interests of the child to do so (Family Code § 7575(B)).
Another way to establish parentage of a child if the other party does not consent to a Voluntary Declaration, or if it is past two years from the child’s birthdate, is to file a Petition to Establish a Parental Relationship (FL-200) with the Court. Once this form is filed, the Court may order genetic testing to prove paternity where contested. If paternity is proven through genetic testing or, alternatively, it is not contested, filing a parentage action allows unmarried parents to attend mediation to facilitate a written agreement that establishes paternity, custody, and visitation of the child.
California Family Code § 3020 states that it is California’s public policy to ensure that the Court’s primary concern is the health, safety, and welfare of children in terms of making orders regarding legal or physical custody or visitation rights. One method used to determine whether a parent is well-suited in the Los Angeles Courts and Orange County Courts Family Law division, to be granted custody of a child, is a Character Letter, declared and signed under penalty of perjury.
In Family Law and divorce cases for custody of a child, a Character Letter is similar to a reference letter or resume. The Character Letter can be written by a person familiar with the parent seeking custody of the child, and the Letter is designed to give a chance for the Judge and Custody Evaluators to understand the nature of the parent-child relationship in a personal way.
This Family Law Character Letter explains all aspects of the parent’s life to the writer’s personal knowledge in regard to his or her child, including positive impacts on the child’s life. The Family Law Character Letter can be considered evidence of the parent’s fitness to have custody of the child.
References for a parent in family and divorce law cases should ideally be perceived as neutral and not connected with either parent. Some examples of potential references are: (1) school teachers, (2) sports coaches, (3) activity leaders (e.g., Boy or Girl Scout leaders), (4) babysitters or childcare providers, (5) religious advisors, (6) pediatricians or healthcare providers, (7) tutors, or (8) therapists for the child or parent. Choosing neutral candidates to write a reference Letter is important to ensure credibility.
Almost anyone with experience with the parent-child relationship can be a writer, including neighbors, the parent’s colleagues or co-workers, or the child’s schoolteachers. The people chosen to write these Character Letters are essentially witnesses of the parent-child relationship and should try to capture positive aspects of the relationship in as much detail as possible.
California Family Code § 3011 requires the Court to consider four categories of factors in making a determination of the best interest of the child. These broad categories include: (1) the health, safety, and welfare of the child; (2) spousal or child abuse; (3) the nature and amount of contact with the parents; and (4) habitual or continual use of illegal drugs, or habitual or continual abuse of alcohol or prescribed controlled substances.
The information that most family law Judges look for in these letters indicates that the parent-child relationship is stable, loving, and consistent. The family law Judge will also look for information pointing to the stability of the relationship, such as getting the child to school and extra-curricular activities on time, providing the child with nutritious meals, and providing the child with a safe and comfortable home environment. These hold true for both Los Angeles County Family Law Courts and Orange County Family Law Courts.
A Character Letter in Los Angeles County and Orange County Family and Divorce Law Courts does not typically have a limitation on length, though Family Law Courts do not allow an excess of 10 pages for supporting information on Requests for Orders. Therefore, the Character Letter in a Family Law case should be kept to a page or two, but if the writer has much experience with the parent-child relationship and has more to say, they should do so.
The bulk of the Character Letter should focus on the writer’s experiences with interactions between the parent and child, indicating that the parent cares for and loves the child, is capable of providing consistent care for the child, etc. This Letter should be written in a conversational tone rather than a business tone.
Keep the language simple and easy to understand, but do not sacrifice what message is intended for the sake of using simple language.
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